Stress .. Stress .. Stress!! You Hate your Job?

Stress .. Stress .. Stress!!

Do you have the feeling that you are wasting your life in what you do everyday?

Do you drag yourself out of bed for the sake of the paycheck or because you fear the perils of unemployment?

You have lots of payments that's keeping you from letting out what's bothering you about what you are doing?

Is your boss abusing you with unlimited tasks, over-time and working on weekends and holidays?

"Join The Club"

I work in a place with no clear job description, where I have to do everything delegated by my manager, from washing cups, to organizing events and financial reports.


I read an article somewhere that actually kind of helped!
first point was:

1. Try as many jobs as possible, don’t settle.

Don’t box yourself in. Explore what you’re good at. Develop a diverse skill set, it will make you more marketable in the long-run.

Don't think what are the notions of success, as Success in life is ultimately subjective.

There's no such a thing in life as 'The Perfect Job" there will always be moments the frustration, but if what's bothering you outweighs what's good about it, then you need to change your profession.

Second thing was:

2. Do something that can make you feel fulfilled beyond work.

Why do we sometimes devote ourselves, cancel our social life for the job that we dislike?

Try to find an activity that makes you feel fulfilled, a hobby, something that makes you feel good.

you will eventually change the job and move on, but a hobby can stay for a life time! Not to mention that someday you will retire, do you really want to stay home and do nothing by then?

Third thing was:

3. Spend your money on experiences, not stuff.

Stop buying materials! It won't last! While experiences are eternal.
instead, spend your money on experiences that will enrich your life, and maybe 

your mind is a treasure chest full stories, memories and experiences.

You don’t want to end up old and broke with a closet full of moldy clothing and busted shoes.

Money comes and goes, I'd go for the solid things that make us better and last for a lifetime.

Just Ask yourself "WHAT DO YOU WANT IN LIFE?"

As the philosopher Alan Watts once stated:

Better to have a short life… full of what you like doing, than a long life spent in a miserable way.

Life was never meant to be monotonous.

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7 Advises to Make Your Life Better

 

Unfortunately, in these demanding times people focus mostly on their work. If you think only about your incomes and career development, you will lack time to enjoy family, hobbies and interests. You’ll have a risk to become emotionally poor and miserable person.

I think no one knows all the secrets on how to have a perfect life, but you should analyze things happening around and listen to your heart. Pay attention to the pieces of advice, given by wise and frank people, instead of feeling sorry for yourself and your failures. The only constant and true thing I believe in is that you should never stop or become disheartened, but if you keep working, you will overcome all difficulties and improve your life. Don’t fear to make some major changes in your outlook. I hope these tips will come you in handy.

1. Try to be more organized

Have you ever tried to become more organized? If you prefer to live just the way you currently do, then you should be ready to face the chaos in various aspects of your life. Good organization helps you to save time, money and nerves. When you’re not late, you don’t have to run around your house frantic looking for things you need. Furthermore, well-organized people are more efficient in what they are doing. They have everything organized according to their schedule. Plus, you will have more time to do things you enjoy.

2. Smile more often

Humor and positive vision of the world has always been the main secrets of happy and successful life. Wise people meet various life challenges with a smile on their faces. It’s better to start new things with a positive mood, because those who radiate negative energy are often greeted with negativity every time they do something. If you surround yourself with positive and encouraging friends, you will make a solid, positive progress in your life. Moreover, your magnificent smile can attract new and wonderful people, who will fill your life with bright colors.

3. Read books

Unfortunately, nowadays many young people find reading less popular than using electronic technologies. Reading has much more benefits because books encourage positive thinking and give your brain a different kind of workout. A collection of good classical books can serve as an engine to your personal development. Reading books broadens your horizons and makes you an all rounded person. Moreover, certain books can even change your outlook and boost your confidence in building strong and healthy relationships with society.

4. Accept guidance

I know many people who tend to act on their own and disdain guidance, because they don’t like to be underfoot. I think there’s no need to get offended when somebody teaches you or demands something from you. If you take the constructive criticism in cold blood, you’ll easily turn it into your advantage. Don’t get defensive as soon as you get negative characteristics or comments, but treat it as a temporary thing.

5. Do a little bit regularly

This tip requires you to be patient and persistent, if you want to succeed in something. You should realize that many long term goals cannot b reached in a moment. It may take you from two weeks to a few years to achieve your goals. You should try to find time each day to work on it slowly and steadily until you really improve in a certain field. Moreover, it’s better to take right decisions every day and these small positive changes of your life will lead to great results.

6. Travel

If you’ve never taken an opportunity to travel abroad, you might have no idea how wonderful the world around is. Traveling teaches you to be more tolerant and acknowledged about life. Just like Francis Bacon once said, “Travel in the younger sort, is a part of education, in the elder, a part of experience.” This unique activity develops your skills in communication and helps you overcome language barriers. Furthermore, traveling can help you get rid of negative thinking. It fills you with positive emotions and changes your outlook.

7. Accept the hurt

I understand that dealing with uncomfortable feelings is a challenging thing since you cannot avoid pain, you can only experience and accept it. What does not kill you makes you stronger. You should start every morning ready to face harsh realities of life and do your best to bring your dreams closer to reality in spite of your problems. Adequate perception of hurt makes you a mature and experienced person.

Life is given for you to struggle for your happiness. You should make plans, create schedules, motivate yourself to work for the quality life you deserve. Try to realize that money gives you a great number of opportunities, but doesn’t satisfy your mental needs. Only love, friendship and respect can improve your life. What are your secrets to a better life? Share them with us, please.

from Womanitley